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Positions women like

Here comes that generalisation again, and with it the knowledge that at least one reader will say, "But I'm not like that". Okay, let's say that many - not all - women enjoy these lovemaking positions.

Call us indulgent, but most men enjoy seeing their partners having an orgasm. Here are a few of the positions many women find gives them the most pleasure, along with some tips for men on maximising the enjoyment for both of you.

 

Astride

You lie on your back, perhaps with a pillow under your bottom. Once she's on top of you and you're inside her, you can tilt your pelvis forward a bit, which allows her to grind hers more directly against it. Many women find this a reliable way of having a clitoral orgasm, especially if they lie on top of you. She may prefer you to lie still and let her control the rhythm of her movement. Don't worry - it'll be pleasant for you too.

 

Your partner may also prefer to remain erect, resting her weight on her hands while moving rhythmically up and done. This enables her to move her G-spot against the head or shaft of your penis.

 

This position can be hugely enjoyable position for both of you. Your partner may heighten the sensation for both of you by squeezing her kegel muscles. Exotic sex manuals talk about women turning around while astride the man, but feats like these have more value as a novelty than heightened pleasure. Try it, but don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t work out. There are plenty of other options.

 

The intimate missionary

It's a much-maligned position, but many women love it. It allows full-length, skin-to-skin touching and eye contact. Try putting your arms around your partner and holding her close to you. You can also hold yourself up on your arms and move inside her, very slowly and rhythmically, rather than frantic rodeo-type thrusting. Try putting a pillow under her bottom.

 

Making a stand

For this you'll need a very sturdy surface, at about waist height. If it's a cold, hard or rough surface, your partner will appreciate a towel between it and her bottom. Some men go on about the value of a rumbling, vibrating tumble-drier to add extra sensation. If you're comfortable with your partner calling out the name of the manufacturer while in the throes of passion, switch on the machine.

 

The reason so many women like this position is that it allows contact with the G-spot. Some women find it the only position in which they can ejaculate, often a highly erotic experience for both partners. She should probably be fully aroused before you enter her, as you'll be penetrating her deeply.

 

Depending on where you do this - a fallen tree in the middle of the Okavango, against a lifeboat on a cruise liner, under a full moon in Venice - there'll also be an element of danger or intrigue. So this isn't the time for lingering, all-night intimacy, but rather the cut-to-the-action sort. Gauge your partner's mood right and your have a recipe for brief, explosive sex. It’s no replacement for the lingering, romantic sort, just a whizz-bang alternative.

 

Spoons in the sack

This is a slow, intimate position that can feel enormously erotic. Your partner lies on her side and you nestle in her back, letting you guide your penis inside her. There's no eye contact unless you have a strategically placed mirror (Not a bad idea if your partner fancies it), but it does allow you to rub and stroke her body and to kiss, lick and nuzzle her neck, back and ears. And of course, you can give her a running commentary on how good she makes you feel.

 

Stoop lively now

Not all women are wild about “doggy style” as it can seem a bit impersonal, but if the mood is right and she's confident that you're not fantasising about her sister it can be very exciting. You can do this standing, kneeling or lying down. For the latter you can put a pillow under her pelvis, and enter her vagina from behind, resting your weight on your hands.

 

Standing or kneeling affords the deepest penetration, and you can hold your partner's hips in your hands and control your thrusting with her pelvic movements and yours. – thankyou to health 24 for these tips

What are condoms made from

Before we get any further, understand that doctors say that only latex condoms can help in preventing STD's; other materials are porous enough to let the diseases through.

In choosing a condom, the first question we must ask is what is it made from...

Latex--

Latex is the most popular material used for condoms; it is also the safest when it comes to disease prevention. Latex is a type of rubber that is composed of very small pores that prevent sperm and viruses, such as HIV, getting through. While latex proves to be the most popular, it is also very susceptible to breakage if the conditions are right...it is important to use a water-based lubricant when using these types of condoms. Note of caution: Oil-based lubricants will destroy latex condoms, thus making them ineffective. DO NOT USE OIL-BASED LUBRICANTS WITH LATEX.
Animal Membrane--

Excuse me? Yes, we said animal membranes. These types of condoms use the linings from animals stomachs or intestines as a sheath. Condoms made from animal membranes were the first type to be used, yet have fallen out of favor as they are too porous to prevent transmission of AIDS and other STD's. We recommend using this type of condom if, and only, if you are in a monogamous relationship, and both of you have been tested for STD's.

Polyurethane--

A type of plastic that is almost twice as strong as latex, polyurethane is great for people who are allergic to latex, yet still want the level of protection that it provides. This type of condom can be made very thin, has no odor or taste and also retains more heat than latex (thus increasing sensation).

Different types of condoms

So there you are standing in the drugstore in front of a huge row of condoms. The last thing you want to do is market research or be seen standing there. As if choosing a brand wasn't hard enough, now you are expected to decided between lubricated and non-lubricated, ribbed or not! Well, here is everything you need to know when it comes to picking out condoms...

You must first decide whether or not you want lubricants. Generally, there are 3 ways to go:

Lubricated
Lubricated condoms are the end-all-be-all of condoms. This type has been around since condoms were invented and are the easiest to use. There are two types of lubricants used in these condoms: silicone-based and water-based. Condoms with a water-based lubricant can often feel sticky and the water can evaporate quickly. Stick to the silicone-based for simplicity.

Non-Lubricated
Some people prefer non-lubricated condoms and will use products such as Astroglide or other bottle lubricants. In this case, make sure you always use a water or silicone based lubricant with latex condoms. DO NOT USE OIL-BASED LUBRICANTS! (Such as baby oil, Vaseline, etc.) They will destroy the latex and make the condom worthless.

Spermicide
Spermicide works as a second form of birth control when used with condoms; it kills the sperm and prevents them from fertilizing an egg should they escape the condom. Some brands of condoms are available with spermicide already on the condom others you have to purchase separately. The most commonly used type of spermicide is Nonoxynol-9.

Desensitizing
The curse of pre-mature ejaculation is a plague on all men, no longer subjecting itself only tp the likes of teen age boys and first time condom users. If you, or your man, is lacking in the endurance department then the desensentizing condom is the answer to your sexual quandries. Desiged with a mild numbing agent, desensitizing condoms prolong climax and extend your pleasures till the wee cracks of dawn, and beyond!

Shaped or Contoured
Most people don't like wearing a condom, that is a common fact. Condom companies realize this and have created several types that are shaped and contoured to help increase sensation. These types vary from brand to brand, however the general concept is to provide more (or less) headroom for the penis thus creating more friction over the sensitive nerve endings.

Large v. Small
Not all penises are the same size. When choosing a size for a condom, be honest because a condom that is too big will simply slide off and provide no protection, while a condom that is too small is likely to break. Condom companies are referring to the diameter of the condom when determining size.

Long v. Short
As if size in one direction wasn't enough, condom makers also have long and short condoms as well as those with more headroom. Condoms with extra headroom provide added sensation due to the material rubbing the over the nerve endings in the head of the penis. Be careful in purchasing short condoms, however, as a short condom will not be able to catch as much "love juice" and could result in spillage.

Finally, we must decide between colors, flavors and textures:

Colors
Latex is naturally a milky-white color; for those of you that want to add a little adventure to your fun, condom makers have created colored condoms. Colored condoms provide the same amount of protection as plain ones provided that they are still made out of latex.

Flavors
Most people don't know that HIV and Herpes can be passed through oral sex. Knowing this, most doctors agree that it is necessary to use protection when performing this act; to make this a little more palatable, condom companies have created flavored condoms. Note of caution: make sure to change condoms when switching between oral sex and other types as teeth may have caused tiny little snags and tears in the condom.

Glow in the Dark
There's nothing more romantic than the incandescent shine of a glowing penis! Glow in the dark condoms have been merely novelty items for years, until now. After years of grueling lab work and breath-taking advances in condom technology there's finally a model approved for actual intercourse. Turn down your lights and turn up the excitement with glow in the dark condoms. .

Textured
Ok, now you have tried the basic condoms and now you want a little something extra. Textured condoms range from those designed to give the non-condom wearing partner sensation to those which provide both with a great feeling.

Or how about letting the woman be in charge?

Female
Female condoms are the newest addition to the condom world. Unlike traditional condoms, a female condom is designed to fit inside a woman instead of outside a man, resulting in a unique yet exciting new feeling.